From phrases like ‘Bob’s your uncle’ to ‘swings and roundabouts’, British English is full of sayings and expressions that appear to make little sense. 

But for refugees and asylum seekers arriving in the UK, learning English is key when trying to integrate into their new communities and navigate employment and education services.

In a bid to show just how difficult this can be, Rabab - who completed the International Rescue Committee’s leadership course - took to the streets of Brighton to ask residents if they know what popular British idioms really mean. 

So, from ‘elephant in the room’ to ‘cats out of the bag’, how many of these sayings can you explain? 

Bob’s your uncle 

Meaning: This expression is often used immediately after a set of instructions and means 'it's as simple as that!'

The origins of this phrase aren’t clear, but many believe the expression arose when Conservative Prime Minister Robert Gascoyne-Cecil - known as ‘Bob’ - appointed his nephew Arthur Balfour as Chief Secretary for Ireland in 1887. This nepotism was unpopular at the time.

Swings and roundabouts 

Meaning: The Collins online dictionary states that ‘swings and roundabouts’ means: “A situation in which different actions or options result in no eventual gain or loss.” 

The phrase itself comes from the idea that at funfairs, the owner might be losing money on one ride, such as the swings, and doing well on another, such as the roundabout. 

The elephant in the room 

Meaning: This idiom refers to a problem or risk that no one wants to discuss. It is based on the idea that something as large and imposing as an elephant can be overlooked in social interactions.

It is said to date back as early as 1814, when poet Ivan Andreevich Krylov wrote a fable called ‘The Inquisitive Man’ which tells of a man who goes to a museum and notices lots of small things, but fails to notice an elephant.

Rabab, who joined the IRC’s leadership course, quizzed the British public on British Idioms, raising awareness of how difficult it is to learn the English language.
Rabab, who joined the IRC’s leadership course, quizzed the British public on British Idioms, raising awareness of how difficult it is to learn the English language. Watch our film to see how difficult these idioms are to define.
Photo: Marco Kesseler for the IRC

Throw the baby out with the bathwater 

Meaning: According to the Cambridge Dictionary, this means to ‘discard something valuable along with other things that are undesirable.’

It is unclear where this idiom came from, but many believe it derives from a German proverb, das Kind mit dem Bade ausschütten. 

Cat’s out the bag 

Meaning: According to the Cambridge Dictionary, ‘cat’s out of the bag’ means ‘to allow a secret to be known, usually without intending to’.

The most cited explanation for the phrase dates back to the Middle Ages. It is said that livestock salesmen cheated their buyers by selling them cats instead of pigs. It wasn’t until the buyer arrived home and, literally, let the cat out of the bag that they’d realise they’d been swindled.

Rabab holds British Idiom sign 'Cats out the bag'
Rabab, who joined the IRC’s leadership course, quizzed the public on British idioms to kick start a conversation about the importance of English language support for refugees. Watch our film to see how difficult these idioms are to define.
Photo: Marco Kesseler for the IRC

It takes two to tango 

Meaning: The Cambridge Dictionary states the meaning as ‘both parties involved in a situation or argument are equally responsible for it.’

This expression is said to date back to the 1920s, when the Latin American tango became a very popular dance. It was made popular by singer Pearl Bailey in her 1952 hit song written by Al Hoffman and Dick Manning.

As Rabab discovered, even those who were born in the UK can struggle to explain the precise meanings of these British expressions. 

This is why the UK Government must do more to support refugees in learning English so they can rebuild their lives in the UK. 

 

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